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Special to The Canadian
Are adult sex vacations good or bad? Few people have an opinion of adult sex vacations that isn’t from one extreme of the argument, while I myself remain one of the few neutral voices of reason who seeks to look at the real reason this industry exists and its gradual increase in popularity among primarily male and most recently female tourists.
There are those that claim adult erotic vacations are relaxing getaways that help a man’s self-esteem and well-being, and there are those that counter with the idea that such vacations are destroying the moral fabric of western society. This article will try to explore why men continue to go on these sex rendezvous and why they may be a good outlet for the male psyche and self esteem.
In 2011, the crowd that views sex tourism as an evil taboo is shrinking, and the adult vacation industry is penetrating further and further into the mainstream of society. While not exactly dinner talk, men from America, Europe, and South America are far from ashamed of taking an adult sex vacation, and more of them are booking trips to destinations in Asia, Central and South America and the Caribbean every year. Men from every relationship status – Married, Single, Divorced, Separated, Domestic Cohabitation , and Swinger Couples are traveling to these tropical paradises for a new outlook and enhanced experience in eroticism and intimacy.
Event activities such as bachelor party packages, golf vacations, casino tournament vacations, swinger parties, single male vacations, and spring break and summer vacations are opportunities for men and swinger couples around the world to experience the enchantment of adult entertainment pleasures found only on these sensual getaways.
Perhaps most surprising is that it isn’t just about sex for the men\women that travel to these types of adult sex vacation destinations. Most people who have gone on one or more trips to places such as the Dominican Republic, Costa Rica, Thailand and Brazil for a sex holiday cite that the companionship factor of the girlfriend experience is one of the biggest allures, in addition to the exotic sex and the VIP treatment they receive from resort staff and their female companion(s) while on these sex vacation getaways. These trips provide a necessary reinforcement of their manliness and virility.
The extreme pampering and constant compliments regarding their good looks, generosity, and virility helps to stoke these men self confidence. Men who take these adult sex vacation excursions will also tell you that the opportunity to have an intimate encounter with these exotic and attractive Latin and Asian women is a once in a life time opportunity which is not usually available to most ordinary men in the western hemisphere due to socio economic, social class, language or physical appearance barriers and ideals attractive women usually have in place to deny ordinary men a chance of being in an intimate relation with them. However this is quite the contrast for these adult only vacation destinations where women who work at these adult vacation locales worldwide have a different mindset.
The Women who provide the intimate and sensual companionship at these Sex Vacation spots have a divested interest in ensuring that the male tourists who visit their impoverish country leave with a memorable impression of their encounter with these women. They are unconcerned of social status, physical appearance, relationship status or any other liability the visiting male tourist may have. Their only focus toward the men who travel to these sex havens is these men must be well entertained and leave with the idea that these exotic women are the best lovers and female companions worldwide. If this goal is accomplished these male sex tourist will spread the word far and wide about their exploits while vacationing with these goddesses, which will increase the number of other male tourists to their country in search of a mind blowing affordable sensual encounter spoken of so highly by their male friends who experienced these sensual and intimate feats and companionship first hand.
Another obvious reason for the increase in men going on these exotic rendezvous is the different flavours and variety of Latin and Asian exotic women that are available on these erotic tours. Being able to spend days relaxing, making love, and enjoying the company of their ideal woman just isn’t something most men can make happen between responsibilities and work. However, due to the fact that the most attractive and open minded women are available at these Adult sex vacation destinations offer men the chance to relax from the stresses of searching for the woman who meets their attraction criteria. The women at these resorts come in all shapes and sizes, hair length, eye color, and each escort truly enjoys spending their time with affectionate and caring tourists that travel around the world to be with them.
When on a vacation to one of these VIP resorts, men from all walks of life are able to forget their work, their responsibilities, even the class and stereotypes that they’ve been pushed into by society. Wall Street bankers and mechanics are welcomed in the same luxuriant and loving manner by these sensual companions. Which man in their right mind would not enjoy this continual pampering, affection and love for an entire vacation setting?
One of the most striking things about adult sex vacations is that they let out the pressure that builds up around the relationship and intimate structure in Western societies.
Relationships can turn sour over the years because of financial responsibilities, decrease in physical attraction between partners, lack of communication or willingness to try new stimulating sensual and intimate acts between partners etc… In many ways these responsibilities are what create the loveless relationship, and because of society mores, men must choose to remain faithful and unhappy, or unfaithful and happy. One argument against men taking adult sex vacations by women is that unfaithfulness leads to the breakup of families, homes, and communities.
In my estimation this is entirely untrue, unfaithfulness is usually the last act of a man’s rage against his current relationship where he is bent on getting the intimate satisfaction that he thinks he deserve and is missing at home or with his lover. With a sex vacation the men are able to take a safe, discreet, temporary holiday from their relationship to get a new perspective on intimacy.
Surprisingly, the same is true for the beautiful women who work at these resorts. They are able to enjoy a career where they are treasured, loved and treated with affection and in turn able to provide for their families with salaries well above what they could make in other industries in their homeland.
The only problem where the aforementioned sensual tour become a detriment to society as many have stated is the recurring issue of female sex slavery and luring children into sex tourism business by uncouth and dangerous people who care nothing about companionship but only financial gain through deceitful, harmful, and cruel acts against women. To this point we absolutely agree and side with the critics of the sex tourism industry. I do not in any way condone the forcing or kidnapping of women or children as sex slaves for profit or pleasure for any reason ,circumstance, religion or ideology.
It is also my contention that these perpetrators should be dealt with harshly by law enforcement and should repay the women, children and families whose lives they have destroyed trough a deliberate act against the will and choice of these women or children who were forced or coerced into something they did not want to participate in. However when consensual social companionship is the main focus of the adult females who are intrigued to meet male or female tourists who visit their country and these female companions welcome the opportunity to be travel guides, sensual companions, and adult entertainers for guest who have come for that purpose only, I personally see no issue with these type of vacation packages.
Choice and consent is the key factor in a legitimate adult sex vacation, both the male tourists and female social companion have both chosen to participate in a legal and consensual arrangement, both are excited that a new acquaintance and friendship might be consummated when both are brought together.
At all times the male tourist must respect the wishes and honour of his vacation companion, and the opposite is also true, the female companion must show the male tourist respect for his time, gratuity, and companionship. How should men know if the ladies involved were not coerced into this arrangement? Use your good judgment gentlemen, if the lady seems scared, afraid, and shy ask her a question in private of her consent to be a social companion with you, if you get a response that does not suit your liking or you suspect that she is being forced or coerced ask for your money back and leave as quickly as possible.
Adult sex vacations are only legitimate if both parties are willing and consenting without fear of reprisal or punishment from some outside source and are truly excited to meet each other for companionship and intimacy anything else is an illegitimate farce. When the adult sex vacation is a true social companion encounter between two consenting adults the factor of choice and companionship alone is a beautiful storyline that should not be discounted as a good thing for the future relationship of all parties involved.
The last argument those against sex vacations and tourism are likely to make is that the health risks make them dangerous. This argument holds little water, though. The women are tested regularly for STDs and other diseases. In combination with practicing safe sex, there is very little chance of such mishaps. As they say, common sense often prevails, and when it comes to an adult sex vacation it is no less true. In any intimate encounter even with your partner safety should always be the number 1 focus when it comes to intimacy between active partners no matter the environment.
In the end, adult sex vacations still won’t be for everyone.
There are men, single and married, who are simply not drawn to or excited by the idea of meeting beautiful women from other nationalities and ethnicities. For those that are, and in particular those men who are suffering from loneliness and a lack of affection and intimacy; there is no good reason for them to deprive themselves of an experience that will awaken their sensual fantasies.
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